To Love Oneself is the Beginning

by Brittany Hogan February 18, 2021 2 min read

woman hugging herself after using nefertem holistic skincare

Reflect & Evolve

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." - Oscar Wilde

Do you feel down, guilty, or even depressed when you break a commitment to yourself? How proud are you when you do what you say you are going to do, AND you do your best at it?

This week's reflection begs us to see the joy in loving ourselves.   

Personal integrity is the state of being whole or undivided. When we stay true to our word, our internal energy aligns with our outward energy. We tend to feel satisfied with ourselves and may even become more kind to others. We also tend to make healthier choices, which results in even more pride in self.

When we don’t follow through on our word, we tend to project our failings onto others. We may become short-tempered, impatient and critical of others. We tend to eat poorly, overindulge in toxic activities and talk about others (a temporary ego fix). 

On this beautiful day of love and expression, let us remember how essential it is to love ourselves first and foremost. Simple acts of daily self-love can be empowering, nourishing and result in better relationships with others. 

Some ideas for self-love include:

  • taking a hot, Epsom salt bath with aromatherapy soap
  • preparing a nourishing meal for yourself; being 100% mindful while eating it
  • spending extra time massaging your feet while moisturizing
  • committing to 5 minutes of meditation/reflection daily
  • Smiling at yourself in the mirror
  • Stating a positive affirmation first thing in the morning such as “I am a beautiful person. Today, I will express this beauty by staying true to my word.”

This week, let’s all commit to at least one act of self-love per day. The more we care for ourselves, the more we love ourselves, the more we naturally radiate love to others. As the law of attraction goes then, the more we express love, the more love will find its way back to us. 

What a beautiful cycle that starts with YOU!

Remember to write this quote down somewhere and allow our amazing products to create a meditative space for this daily reflection.

    How did this reflection resonate with you? Let us know in the comments below!

    At Nefertem Skincare, we believe that true radiance begins with mindful living and pure, intentional skincare. Our tallow soaps and moisturizers are handcrafted to nourish your skin with clean, natural ingredients.

    Elevate your self-care with tallow soaps that cleanse and uplift, and tallow moisturizers that bring out your skin’s natural glow. Each product is designed to create a sacred space for reflection and grounding, where you can embrace the aromas of nature and nurture your skin and spirit alike.

    Leave a comment

    Comments will be approved before showing up.


    Also in Holistic Skincare Insights

    tallow as a moisturizer blog with womans face
    Tallow as a Moisturizer: The Ultimate Guide to Natural, Nourishing Skincare

    by Brittany Hogan September 15, 2024 6 min read

    Read More
    Purity unscented tallow moisturizer
    Discover Radiant Skin with Purity Unscented Tallow Moisturizer: Your Ultimate Guide to Tallow-Based Skincare

    by Brittany Hogan August 14, 2024 3 min read

    Read More
    close up of someone's pores showing the sebum moisture
    The Beauty of Sebum: Nature's Perfect Moisturizer

    by Brittany Hogan July 08, 2024 4 min read

    Read More